Ya-Mahmoud finally gettin married!
They always say get these guys married fast cuz they cannot control themselves well i agree! :P but at the same time it should not only be those who cannot control there hormones but those who can because did the prophet not say make marriage easy? yet we make it so hard...why?
It was quite funny at the engagement (nikha or w/e, i thnk thas what its called the thing before the weddin) uncles, broz, sis, aunties, friends all coming up n telling me
"your best friend n brother is getting married....whens ur turn?"
each time i would resond with a laugh n tell them never....I mean whats the point? ya those who want to score thas good im there for you...but marriage wil always be something i avoid I just dnt think I can trust someone that much.....that n with my life....why jeopardize theres?...it always brings me joy to see to ppl come togather but I know that it is not for me...nor will it ever be....love?...what is love?....love is pain.....pain just for me....pain I dont no wish to have, I already have enough why take more
Im not even capabale of loving anymore so i would wish they would jus back off. They know me, they should know that.....i dont mind them asking, what I do mind is when ppl keep preasurring me to marry.......
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wow thats quite interesting...that you don't believe in any of that..i find the part about not capable of loving rather interesting...especially since human pyschology shows that every human being has a attachment to someone ..usually something that keeps him or her going...u may say ur not capable of loving the opposite sex in terms of marriage but everyone loves
Hi! Firstly, since you have been giving me all your words of wisdom in your emails, i would like to try and give you mine. Firstly, never let anyone pressurise you into anything, especially marridge. Love happens to you, it is not something you have any say over, you can try and stop yourself falling but in the end, that hurts more than actually letting yourself fall, because belive me, there will be somethiing there to catch you, and i used to think that i could never open my head enough to let a guy in, but loking back, it seems that caused me more hurt by not trusting, it may take you time to get over pain, but my personal opinion is that i would rather get hurt a thousand times than not feel love again once. You just havent found the right person yet. And as to your question as for "what is love?" Well, to me, love is a feeling that is indescribable, its not like the usual feling of lust that turns you on, its more than that, its when you want to be around that person all the time and you feel all mushy around them! Louise
xxxx " love isnt who you can see yourself with, its who you cant see yourself without"
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